As a young woman, marriage is the last thing on my mind. I have my reasons and they are deeply personal.

First, I don’t feel financially stable enough to be in a relationship. Relationships require more than just love.

They need time, energy, and resources. Right now, I am focused on building my own future, step by step.

I want to be fully independent before committing to someone else. Without stability, love alone isn’t enough.

Money problems often destroy relationships. Financial stress leads to arguments, resentment, and sometimes, complete breakdowns of what once looked perfect.

Second, I’ve seen what modern marriages look like. Many seem full of silent suffering, betrayal, or emotional exhaustion.

Divorce and separation are becoming more common. According to reports, cases of cheating and domestic abuse are also increasing.

This reality scares me. I’ve watched people lose themselves trying to “make it work.” Most of them are women.

They give up their careers, dreams, and even peace just to save a relationship that no longer serves them.

That’s not the life I want. I would rather stay single than trap myself in a toxic union.

Also, social media and modern life bring new relationship challenges. Distractions, unrealistic expectations, and poor communication cause many breakups.

Some partners feel entitled. Others manipulate or control their loved ones in the name of “love” or “tradition.”

I believe love should feel safe. Marriage should not feel like a burden or a sacrifice of self.

At the moment, I choose to heal, learn, and grow before anything else. Right now, understanding myself comes before trying to understand anyone else.

I enjoy the freedom to make my own choices. I value peace of mind over pressure to settle.

Many young women feel rushed to marry. Some give in because of age, family, or fear of being alone.

But I believe waiting is okay. It’s better than rushing into a life that could leave me miserable.

Marriage should come from mutual love, not fear. A strong marriage starts with honesty, respect, and shared values.

If I ever marry, I’ll do it by choice emotionally, mentally, and financially ready not out of expectation.

For now, I’m not ashamed to say I choose myself. My peace, growth, and dreams come first.

What does marriage mean to you at this stage of your life?